By Pastor Bill Gaube
Learning to communicate never ends. Recently my wife and I had an energetic “discussion” at a check stand. I said to the puzzled clerk, “Sorry, we are still learning to communicate – we only have been married 53 years.” It was not a flippant remark, just a recognition that you have to keep working at communication.
What is the recipe for good communication? I once read: “Let your words be seasoned with love.” I Corinthians 13:4-7 shows us some basic seasonings that go into love. Here are a few:
SEASON YOUR COMMUNICATION WITH PATIENCE. We seldom get the message the first time. So react with patience – not a quick retort. One definition of patience is the capacity to not retaliate. Be willing to hear someone out and to wait till they understand you.
SEASON YOUR COMMUNICATION WITH KINDNESS. Respond in kindness to irritating and stubborn people – try not to be that way yourself. Kindness is shown physically as much as in words. Just think how your tone and facial expressions can change this statement, “Oh, its you – what do you want?”
SEASON YOUR COMMUNICATION WITH HUMILITY. Respect the other person. Try to see the situation as they do. Remember communication isn’t winning an argument, but trying to understand what each other has said.
SEASON YOUR COMMUNICATION WITH WORK. Communication is work! That is why scripture says never give up. Ask the Lord’s help – after all Jesus was and is the only one who can work this recipe. Keep a positive attitude by using large portions of faith and hope.

PEP CLUB ACTIVITIES FOR FEBRUARY
SPECIAL BREAKFAST CLUB, 10:00 AM; THURSDAY, FEBRUARY 11
Bob and Brenda Boston, Christian and Missionary Alliance workers in Paraquay will be with us. They will share from their rich experience about God’s working in this blossoming part of the world. You will have the opportunity to ask questions and interact with them. Regular PEP breakfasts continue on the other Thursdays of February. We meet at the Waffle Shop, corner Zinfandel and Folsom Blvd. Order what you like and enjoy the fellowship. We’d love to have all those 55+ join us.
POT LUCK DINNER, SUNDAY, FEB 28 after the 11:00 service in Rudat Hall
To honor George Washington’s birthday, we will have a patriotic theme. Bring a dish to share with others. These are popular times we can get to know each other better and enjoy good food. If you have any questions, contact Pastor Bill.
PLEASE NOTE: THERE WILL BE NO OTHER FEBRUARY OUTING SINCE WE WOULD LIKE AS MANY AS POSSIBLE TO COME TO THE MISSIONS BREAKFAST.



By Pastor Bill Gaube
WE WILL ENJOY THE MINISTRY OF OUR OWN ROB & MARY-JO TOWNS. When they were with us a couple of years ago, they were a joy and blessing. They will present a varied program of Christmas music. Their musical ability, sense of humor and warm hearts insure we will have a wonderful evening. There will also be a Christmas Carol Sing-Along.
